What makes a woman spiritually attractive to a man?
To answer the question about what makes a woman spiritually attractive to a man: It's a woman who prioritizes her connection to the creator over her connection to the man (*dghiyam).
When a woman thinks about the creator more than she thinks about the man she is with, or the man she desires, she radiates spiritual energy. Her aura expands and and men are drawn to her.
This focus on her inner connection makes her magnetic because it shows she is whole within herself. She is not seeking completion from the man, she is already complete. A healthy man walks away from someone who is needy of his energy. A man is most drawn to a woman when she is deeply invested in her own growth and living her life to its fullest.
When he first met you, he was attracted to the wholeness you felt inside, the way you were fully committed to becoming the best version of yourself; you did not need him. But often, when a woman starts to like a man, her focus shifts; she begins to prioritize him over her own spiritual connection.
The most attractive thing you can do is to stay rooted in your connection to God.
Mantra:
"My connection to the creator is my foundation. My light draws the right love to me."
*above content source: davidghiyam
Shine your light.
Why is it that as soon as we fall in love, or are attracted to someone we forget ourselves, and focus on our love interest?
The tendency to lose ourselves in love often stems from a mix of biology, psychology, and social conditioning. Here are some reasons why this happens:
1. Biological Wiring
- When we fall in love, our brain releases chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, which create feelings of euphoria and connection. This "love cocktail" makes us hyper-focused on the object of our affection, as our brain prioritizes bonding and connection over other aspects of life, including self-awareness.
2. Desire for Connection
- Humans are inherently social beings who crave connection. In a new relationship, the excitement and novelty of bonding with someone can overshadow our need to nurture our own identity.
3. Cultural Conditioning
- Many cultures romanticize the idea of "losing oneself" in love. Movies, books, and media often portray love as an all-encompassing force where partners sacrifice everything for one another. This messaging can subtly encourage us to prioritize the relationship over ourselves.
4. Fear of Rejection
- Early in relationships, we often want to impress or please the other person. This can lead to neglecting our own needs and interests as we focus on being what we think our partner wants.
5. Attachment Patterns
- If someone has an anxious attachment style, they might feel an overwhelming need to secure the relationship by prioritizing their partner. This often comes at the expense of their own individuality.
6. Insecurity and Validation
- Falling in love can sometimes magnify our insecurities. We might unconsciously seek validation from our partner and place them at the center of our world in the hope of feeling more secure and worthy.
7. Idealization
- In the early stages of love, it's common to idealize our partner and the relationship itself. This idealization can make us forget our own values, goals, and routines as we pour energy into what feels like a perfect connection.
How to Stay Grounded in Love
- Practice Self-Awareness: Regularly reflect on whether you're staying true to your values, goals, and personal needs.
- Maintain Your Hobbies: Keep pursuing your passions and interests, even as you nurture the relationship.
- Set Healthy Boundaries: Balance giving to the relationship with prioritizing your own well-being.
- Remember Your Worth: Your value is not determined by your partner's attention; it comes from within.
By keeping a strong sense of self, you not only maintain your individuality but also contribute to a healthier and more balanced relationship.
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